Thank you! I appreciate it!

Because Holden Caulfield is a very unique and relatable character.

All the time.

I try to avoid it. It’s probably not the best way, but the way that I deal with it is I find something else to occupy my time and keep my mind off of it.

Although, it’s nearly impossible to shake bad thoughts while trying to go to sleep, or in the shower. So, eventually, I’ll have to talk to somebody about it, and get to the root of what is causing my pain, and that usually does the trick. The problem is finding somebody in some situations.

I do not believe in love at first sight. How can you love someone without knowing anything about them. I do however believe that it is possible to become infatuated at first sight, to be able to have some kind of obsession at first sight. 

There are obviously different levels of love. I love a lot of people. I love most of the people that I see and interact with every day. You don’t even have to be fond of a person to love them. Love to me is the appreciation of one’s existence.

The word “love”, however, is quite ambiguous. It is for this reason that in a romantic relationship saying that you love each other can cause complications. Most people in a relationship when they hear the word love from their partner, they interpret it as I want to be with you forever, have kids with you, and live happily ever after. To me, this isn’t true. I think that love can mean many different things.

I do believe in what some may refer to as “true love”, although I do not believe in destiny. The whole concept of destiny is a little strange to me, so I decide to believe in something that I find logical. I believe in existentialism. We create our own future. The choices that we make every day are what determines our purpose. So, with that being said, it is possible to find true love with many different people. But, here’s the catch: you have to either let it happen, or work to make it happen. When the work to make it happen becomes too much, usually people quit. That is why when two people connect, and are willing to accept each other’s flaws and quirks, they fall in love.